I’ve had several of conversations lately with faculty senior to me about their young female graduate students. The conversations go something like this. They begin with the advisor raving about a particular female graduate student, usually including how bright said student is, what a hard worker, and how much they have or had accomplished in the lab. Then, bright female graduate student drops out of graduate school to get married (in one case she had a first author C/N/S paper) OR she graduates but leaves science to follow her spouse where ever he goes. The conversation ends with A LOT of hand wringing on the part of the advisor about how Continue reading ‘Don’t just cry about it, DO SOMETHING!(updated)’
Archive Page 2
Don’t just cry about it, DO SOMETHING!(updated)
Published June 4, 2008 General News & Thoughts , The System , Work-Life Balance 14 CommentsChildren and Academia… two excellent posts…
Published May 30, 2008 General News & Thoughts , Work-Life Balance 3 CommentsSciencewoman and Dr. Free-ride both have excellent posts on a topic close to my heart and experience…female academics and children…
I’m too exhausted after a day of kindergarten graduation and fourth grade graduation, all while preparing myself and my student to leave town for a meeting… to even write my own post about this.
Lame, I know. Go on over there and read their posts..great stuff.
I’m going to get back to the job search series, I swear. I think we are about up to what to do if an offer should come your way, and it is going to take me a bit of time to write that section… so I request your indulgence.
In the meantime- I’ve been stewing a little bit about luck and planning, confidence and arrogance, self-promotion and being a girl. By accident the other day I ran across a couple of articles including this one and this one. The PDF files for these are Continue reading ‘Modesty’
Letter to the Editor
Published May 25, 2008 General News & Thoughts , The Lab , The System 11 CommentsJust to keep you updated on the paper rejection situation that was detailed in my earlier post, and in Physioprof’s post on Drugmonkey (and then Drugmonkey had one about quality of data). I had no idea that this topic would touch off so many useful posts and informative comments on this topic.
After thinking through the reviewers’ comments and writing a point-by-point rebuttal just for myself… considering everything that had been written in those posts above and all the comments Continue reading ‘Letter to the Editor’
Celebrate…
Published May 22, 2008 General News & Thoughts , The Two Body Problem , Work-Life Balance 21 CommentsThe end of the week is within reach. I am overwhelmed with work at the moment… so this will be only a brief celebratory post.
DrMrA found out this morning that he was awarded a federal grant that he applied for. After submitting in the neighborhood of 20 federal grant proposals and struggling with funding quite a bit in the last 5 years (despite excellent productivity and good journals) Continue reading ‘Celebrate…’
Mad Hatter had a post yesterday about ‘fit’ of personnel hired into the lab on which I made a comment about a habit I have of sitting my employees down on the first day, and laying out a few of my expectations for professional behavior in the lab. A couple of people (CAE and Schlupp) wondered in the comments what I say during this meeting… hence this post…
Why do I do this? Well- I have found over my years as an employee and an employer that you just can’t assume that people who come to work for you (or with you) will behave like professionals, considerate Continue reading ‘Great Expectations…’
I’ve been dreading this. The paper was out 65 days and the perky little rejection letter from the editor came this morning, reviews attached.
Its ok, these things happen and its just a paper. I’m not really upset about it that much and will turn it over somewhere else. I think some of the reviewer’s comments are kind of odd- ‘So what does XYZ GENE encode’, and , ‘What is its role in the ABC reaction?’- and crap like that makes me wonder if I am just an awful writer and can’t get my point across, or if the reviewer needs to go back to secondary school because obviously their reading ability is an issue. And then, of course- there is the desire by reviewers to say that a study is ‘preliminary’ if they don’t see every possible experiment in a single paper- which is also frustrating (more on this below). Continue reading ‘REJECTION’
It has been a week of craziness so far. My children’s school year is rapidly coming to a close, and this week and the schedule of the next couple of weeks will be absolute madness. My faculty meeting conflicts with the 4th grade science fair in which my older daughter has a project on Wednesday. Then on Friday- I am reading at lunchtime to my kindergartener’s class… and we are having cupcakes for her 6th birthday. These are both commitments that I don’t want to say no to, although I know that missing faculty meeting is generally not a good idea. There is a whole list Continue reading ‘Unscheduled Events’
I received the following poem from my 10 year old daughter today….
Dear Mom:
I love you a lot,
I’ll love you till the world rots,
I know that I whine,
I know it’s not pleasant,
But instead of saying sorry,
Here’s a little present. (a present was attached)
You take care of me when I don’t feel good,
You do all the laundry, you cook all the food.
You clean up the house when it’s a really big mess,
But I don’t get why I can’t have a Nintendo DS? (a running discussion between us)
This poem’s about to come to an end,
But before it is finished I have one thing to say-
I love you a lot Mom,
Happy Mother’s Day!
Ah, I think the exciting data has been displaced from my pocket for now- while my 10 year old reminds me of the distinction between my job and my life. And no honey, you can’t have a Nintendo DS or a Wii…but I’ll get ya your own blog…
OK, you were nodding your head but were you LISTENING?
Published May 9, 2008 General News & Thoughts , Work-Life Balance 6 CommentsI have a student. She’s a marvelous student (by every objective measure) who I have written about here before. She came to me as a third year student in another lab, steered to me by her thesis committee, …but ready to quit graduate school because she has a family. SERIOUSLY. This idea did not come out of thin air, it was TAUGHT to her. I have been trying to undo it.
But that’s not the reason for this post. I was struck by something that was said over at Mother of all Scientists- by a (no doubt) well meaning advisor(s) to a postdoc Continue reading ‘OK, you were nodding your head but were you LISTENING?’
